Maybe, instead of saying something factually wrong like "Black people can't be racist toward white people" or "misandry doesn't exist," we can identify what's happening and try to (a) contextualize it and (b) identify the type and scale of harm it is likely to cause.
A Hispanic person expressing stereotypes about an Anglo person could cause harm and is shitty. The reverse probably causes more 1-on-1 harm, is much more shitty, and perpetuates structural problems. The latter is much worse.
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