Or hear me out, maybe just don't hang out with people that are willing to vote to end democracy in the USA.
Try just sending cards or a video chat so you can mute them when they start touting the positive things they like about Kash Patel.
https://www.pbs.org/newshour/show/tips-for-navigating-political-divisions-to-find-common-ground-at-holiday-gatherings?utm_source=flipboard&utm_medium=activitypub