Rob Carlson :ally: :BLM:<p>During discussions with my family I thought a little this week about friends, family, and workers who have come out or changed (ie. revealed their true) their inner identity over the last decade or so.</p><p>My reactions are typically muted and the social equivalent of a compliant shoulder shrug, which I know some people can take offense to when I don't mean any. I had some trouble putting a name to how I typically react to that sort of thing, and did a little research into similar points of view.</p><p>I found a lot of different perspectives including a Reddit post that basically opined that many people aren't truly nice. They don't really care but *seem* nice and tolerant because they generally mind their own business. I don't feel like I'm that far gone, but a few comments under it did resonate.</p><p>Anyway, I gathered my thoughts and wrote a little about it. Maybe you'll see a little of yourself in it too? </p><p><a href="https://vees.net/self/coexist/indifferent/" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">vees.net/self/coexist/indiffer</span><span class="invisible">ent/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://epistolary.org/tags/indifferent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>indifferent</span></a> <a href="https://epistolary.org/tags/coexist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>coexist</span></a> <a href="https://epistolary.org/tags/judgment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>judgment</span></a> <a href="https://epistolary.org/tags/tolerance" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>tolerance</span></a></p>