Gimme your #dating insight, men who date women: on an app, if you’d messaged a cool lady, how long could she leave it before replying? What’s an acceptable length of time (if she explains in her message she’s been busy)?
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Maybe if they didn’t support eugenics and didn’t have toxic personalities they would do better in the dating scene. They have much inner work to do.
https://www.wired.com/story/natal-conference-matchmaking/ #FarRight #Eugenics #Dating #Reproduction #Politics
WIRED · Far-Right Influencers Are Hosting a $10K-per-Person Matchmaking Weekend to Repopulate the Earth
Ich habe mich bei OKCupid angemeldet. Mehr zum Spaß. Und weil ich neugierig war/bin.
Und so sehr ich die Idee schön finde, so Menschen kennen zu lernen, so sehr stresst sie mich auch.
Ich muss Menschen auf Grund weniger Informationen bewerten. Und zeitgleich hoffen, dass mich eins dieser Menschen ebenfalls positiv wertet um dann zu hoffen, dass diese Person mich nicht komisch findet und ich sie nicht anstrengend.
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PCMag: "Over 1.5 Million Photos Leaked Due to #Dating App Security Flaws."
https://www.pcmag.com/news/over-15-million-photos-leaked-due-to-dating-app-security-flaws
Connecting with people shouldn’t feel like a battle.
The problem with straight #dating...
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@stuart_cb 
https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/i-volunteer-as-tribute-the-problem-with-straight-dating/
I deleted the first draft of this blog and rewrote the whole thing this afternoon. *That* is how keen I am to build bridges rather than chuck rocks.
Sorry if it's a bit clumsy, but I hope you get what I'm trying to say.
We need #E2EE for #dating apps, urgently (especially “private” photos) 
RE: https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:tx5zu5wddt5fpe4stpdoxu5d/post/3lllcevy7722z
Bluesky SocialBluesky
heise online · Datenleck: 1,5 Millionen private Fotos von Dating-Apps für LGBTQ+ enthüllt
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@kinkkong @InfoDumpTruck time for #opensource users own their data #dating
The moment I knew: I told him my life was too messed up for a relationship, and he said ‘I’ll wait’ https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/mar/30/the-moment-i-knew-i-told-him-my-life-was-too-messed-up-for-a-relationship-and-he-said-ill-wait #Australianlifestyle #Relationships #Lifeandstyle #Dating
The Guardian · The moment I knew: I told him my life was too messed up for a relationship, and he said ‘I’ll wait’
»[…] Der Entwickler der Anwendungen, […], veröffentlichte laut dem Bericht eigentlich #geheim zu haltende Informationen wie Schlüssel für #Program'mierschnittstellen (#API's), #Passwort'er oder #Verschlüsselung'skeys zusammen mit den #Quelltext'en der #Apps. […]«
Echt jetzt, dies geschieht heutzutage noch? .env Files oder gar direkt im #Code setzt mensch keine Passwörter & Co. öffentlich in seiner #Git Distro. Dies betrifft leider sehr viele Menschen.
heise online · Datenleck: 1,5 Millionen private Fotos von Dating-Apps für LGBTQ+ enthüllt
Why Do They #Lie?
The challenge of #dating someone with #dismissive attachment style
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-freedom-to-change/202503/why-do-they-lie
Psychology TodayWhy Do They Lie?Research shows that those with dismissive attachment are more likely to engage in deception in romantic relationships. See how to get to the truth to avoid pain and disappointment.
Crush test
#SingleJungle Ép.108 
Pascal Jaubert 
"L’#amour en questions", "le #ghosting veut dire : j'ai rien à dire" 
https://singlejungle.lepodcast.fr/ep-point-108-pascal-jaubert-lamour-en-questions-le-ghosting-veut-dire-jai-rien-a-dire
Prise de son/montage : Isabelle Field Hébergement : @podCloud #podcast #masculinité #théâtre #dating
Wang Yaya, a 23-year-old university student in Beijing, has spent over 70,000 yuan (about $10,000) to pursue her crush — a character in the mobile game Love and Deepspace. https://www.japantimes.co.jp/life/2025/03/29/digital/dating-games-china-love/?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=mastodon #life #digital #videogames #interactive #dating
The Japan Times · 'Better than real life': In China, virtual boyfriends are emotional aids
(she/her) "Don't you ever feel lonely and jealous when your partner's out on a date and you're not?"
Haha, oh, my sweet summer child.
You underestimate what a treat it is to spend a night by myself, eating pizza bagels & watching Studio Ghibli, with absolutely no need to entertain anyone else.
Don't get me wrong -- I love my partners! But I love them a heck of a lot more when I get to be away from them sometimes.
Society expects us to live in each others' pockets, and to spend very little time alone. But for an introvert like me? Time all by myself, unobserved and unaccompanied, is an absolute necessity.
I love knowing that my more-extroverted partner is out getting their social needs met, while I'm having my delightful goblin-time.
Most of this is word-for-word, but there's some truncation in the conversation for the comic format, and one added line from me since I didn't actually hear her laughing at the time.
I love you @MavenAndFriends ! Thank you for everything.
Longer description for how and why this came to be on my FA and Eka's submissions.
I decided to work through some old pain during the current Venus retrograde so I could be a better partner for the person I was dating, but then the answer to "Is this what I truly want?" turned out to be "No".
Ooops...
#astrology #witchcraft #journaling #dating #growth #venusretrograde
Ooops...
#astrology #witchcraft #journaling #dating #growth #venusretrograde
