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Golden Child Unleashed<p>Welcome! I’m so glad you’re here.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/goldenchildunleashed" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>goldenchildunleashed</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/goldenchild" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>goldenchild</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/scapegoat" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>scapegoat</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/narcissisticmother" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>narcissisticmother</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/narcissism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>narcissism</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/covertnarcissist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>covertnarcissist</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/enablingparent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>enablingparent</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/flyingmonkeys" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>flyingmonkeys</span></a>#toxicfamilyabuse <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/dysfunctionalfamily" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>dysfunctionalfamily</span></a>#childhoodtrauma <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/traumasurvivor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>traumasurvivor</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/generationaltrauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>generationaltrauma</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/emotionalabuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>emotionalabuse</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/emotionalneglect" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>emotionalneglect</span></a>#triangulation <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/nocontact" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>nocontact</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/codependency" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>codependency</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/peoplepleaser" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>peoplepleaser</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/perfectionism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>perfectionism</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/lowselfworth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>lowselfworth</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/triggers" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>triggers</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/emotiondysregulation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>emotiondysregulation</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/complexPTSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>complexPTSD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/cPTSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>cPTSD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/healing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>healing</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/recovery" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>recovery</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/musingsofarecoveringcodependent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>musingsofarecoveringcodependent</span></a></p>
Cat Lady Kydia Music 🇺🇦<p>"Of course I'm going to pay you" she said when she asked me to produce, as if she were being generous when she declared this. She asked for my rate--I had never produced others' <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/music" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>music</span></a> before--this was years ago. So taking into consideration her desire to create a pro album on a limited budget, &amp; her declaration of profit-splitting, I set my rate low--below minimum wage in my area. I was looking forward to making connections and learning things in a real studio. <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/CovertNarcissist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CovertNarcissist</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Narcissism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Narcissism</span></a> 5/</p>
Cat Lady Kydia Music 🇺🇦<p>I'll have to finish this story later; I need sleep. But I think you see where this is going, right? </p><p>The album took just over a year to complete, and I realized about 4 months in that something was...off with this lady. The signs were there from the beginning, but I was too blinded by her attention and compliments and delusions of grandeur to see it clearly. 😭 <br>4/</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/CovertNarcissist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CovertNarcissist</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Narcissist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Narcissist</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Narcissism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Narcissism</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/PTSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>PTSD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Therapy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Therapy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/MusicProduction" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>MusicProduction</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/MusicIndustry" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>MusicIndustry</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/NPD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NPD</span></a></p>
Cat Lady Kydia Music 🇺🇦<p>She asked me to produce--on the advice of a performance coach who encouraged her to hire women as much as possible for the project, since women are sorely underrepresented in the <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/MusicIndustry" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>MusicIndustry</span></a>. As her producer, she said she would split profits with me, promising to talk to her lawyer, because she "couldn't afford to pay much" up front, especially with how much studios and session musicians can cost.<br>3/</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/CovertNarcissist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CovertNarcissist</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Narcissist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Narcissist</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Narcissism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Narcissism</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/PTSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>PTSD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Therapy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Therapy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/WomenMusicians" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>WomenMusicians</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/MusicProduction" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>MusicProduction</span></a></p>
Cat Lady Kydia Music 🇺🇦<p>We weren't really "friends" but acquaintances in a <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SongWriting" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>SongWriting</span></a> group that we were both active with. She <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/LoveBombed" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>LoveBombed</span></a> me (or Friendship Bombed me, rather), complimenting my <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/MusicProduction" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>MusicProduction</span></a> skills and songwriting, and my general taste in music. It's embarrassing how much she buttered me up, and since I had low self-esteem, I fell for it easily. She asked me to produce her album, which I was super excited to do. <br>2/</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/CovertNarcissist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CovertNarcissist</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Narcissist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Narcissist</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/narcissism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>narcissism</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/PTSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>PTSD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/NPD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NPD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Therapy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Therapy</span></a></p>
Cat Lady Kydia Music 🇺🇦<p>My latest song is about a relationship (friendship/client) I had with a covert narcissist (NPD). It's taken me a long time to forgive myself for falling for her bullshit. This video does a good job explaining how a covert narcissist operates. 1/</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pw6rym2o_Vs" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">youtube.com/watch?v=pw6rym2o_V</span><span class="invisible">s</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/CovertNarcissist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CovertNarcissist</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Narcissist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Narcissist</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/narcissism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>narcissism</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/NPD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NPD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/CovertNarcissism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CovertNarcissism</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/PTSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>PTSD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Therapy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Therapy</span></a></p>