Wendy Palmer<p>I had occasion to (skim)read Lady Sale’s diary of her nine months as one of a group of hostages during the British-Afghan conflict in 1842-3.</p><p>It’s very Victorian: a relatively dry and emotionless accounting (she does admit to crying upon rescue).</p><p>“The weather was this, we had a minor earthquake, we marched to here, we ate that, we heard these reports of troop movements, Mrs Waller gave birth to a daughter, we got some mail.”</p><p>Wait, what?</p><p>THREE women gave birth during their time in captivity, including Lady Sale’s OWN DAUGHTER, all three recorded with a single line, not a mention of their pregnancies even using the common euphemisms of the day (all three were soldiers’ wives, by the timing already pregnant when captured; Lady Sale avers the women were treated well).</p><p>She also only ever refers to her daughter as Mrs Sturt but that could have been changed for publication, surely if she was writing a private diary she would have unbent enough to call her Alexandria.</p><p>The bit that raised my eyebrows the most: “When little Tootsey (Capt. Anderson's child) was carried off in the Khoord Cabul pass, she was taken direct to Cabul: and the Khan rode up and down the streets with her; offering her for sale for 4000 rupees. After some negotiation regarding the price, Conolly purchased the child.”</p><p>AFTER SOME NEGOTIATION REGARDING THE PRICE????</p><p><a href="https://www.gutenberg.org/ebooks/50219" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="">gutenberg.org/ebooks/50219</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p><p><a href="https://britishempire.co.uk/library/ladyofkabul.htm" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">britishempire.co.uk/library/la</span><span class="invisible">dyofkabul.htm</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.au/tags/history" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>history</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.au/tags/VictorianEra" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>VictorianEra</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.au/tags/StiffUpperLip" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>StiffUpperLip</span></a></p>