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Alt EvilTough guy Trump sure is looking like a little whiney bitch these days.<a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ProfessionalVictim" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ProfessionalVictim</a><a href="https://thegodlessliberal.blogspot.com/2025/01/trump-squeals-hes-being-evilly-and.html" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank">https://thegodlessliberal.blogspot.com/2025/01/trump-squeals-hes-being-evilly-and.html</a>

Anthony Stevens 🇪🇺 🇯🇲 💙<a href="https://mastodon.social/@justicesandwich" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@justicesandwich</a> The <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/ProfessionalVictim" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ProfessionalVictim</a> is back hey? 🙄You're a non-practicing plastic <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Jew" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Jew</a> who's rocked up out of the blue to satisfy his bloodthirsty lust for cold-blooded revenge.Aren't you quenched yet, or do you STILL view those calling for a ceasefire as <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Antisemitic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Antisemitic</a> or Traitors to your tribe? 🤔Again, if I kidnapped your family & held them hostage in my home, would you burn my house down to force me to release them?You can't answer because it exposes you for the loon you are.

Anthony Stevens 🇪🇺 🇯🇲 💙<a href="https://mastodon.social/@justicesandwich" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@justicesandwich</a> You're a non-practicing Plastic <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Jew" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Jew</a>. You turn up spewing your hate filled diatribe, merely to satisfy your lust for blood & revenge.I've asked several times & you're yet to furnish me with an answer:If I kidnapped your family & held them hostage in my home, would you burn down my house to force me to release them? Yes or no?You keep returning like a crap stained boomerang, so seeing as you just love conflict so much, answer my question.<a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/ProfessionalVictim" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ProfessionalVictim</a>

Anthony Stevens 🇪🇺 🇯🇲 💙<a href="https://mastodon.social/@justicesandwich" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@justicesandwich</a> You're back you plank! 🙄OK, where were we the last time you rocked up like a soggy fart in a lift?Ah yes:If I kidnapped your wife & children & held them captive in my home, would you burn down my house to force me to release your family? <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/ProfessionalVictim" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ProfessionalVictim</a>

MusiqueNow :pride: ✡️ 🇵🇸 :anarchismhebrew:<a href="https://todon.eu/tags/TheKavernacle" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#TheKavernacle</a> How <a href="https://todon.eu/tags/jordanPeterson" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#jordanPeterson</a> became a <a href="https://todon.eu/tags/ProfessionalVICTIM" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ProfessionalVICTIM</a> and the BIGGEST <a href="https://todon.eu/tags/Conservative" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Conservative</a> HYPOCRITE <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AFCQz3sptd4" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AFCQz3sptd4</a> <a href="https://todon.eu/tags/ConservativeVictimhood" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ConservativeVictimhood</a>

T.Wllms<a href="https://mastodon.online/@Peg33" class="u-url mention">@Peg33</a> he's the king of it.... the entire GOP is near as bad... <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/ProfessionalVictim" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#ProfessionalVictim</a>™️

Shrink4Men<a href="https://lor.sh/tags/NarcissistDictionary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#NarcissistDictionary</a>: Strategic or Weaponized <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/Incompetence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Incompetence</a>Or, what I’ve long referred to as playing dumb and/or deliberately screwing up tasks in order to get out of doing them in the future. Typically utilized by the <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/DamselinDistress" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#DamselinDistress</a> or <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/DudeInDistress" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#DudeInDistress</a>, the <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/ClusterB" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ClusterB</a> variety pack, the <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/ProfessionalVictim" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ProfessionalVictim</a> and the <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/PassivAggressive" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#PassivAggressive</a>. (*These groups are not mutually exclusive.)We’re all human. We all make mistakes. What matters is that we take ownership of our blunders and f—k-ups, apologize, fix it (if possible) and make an honest effort to be more careful in the future. Furthermore, many people have individual particular preferences that, when we share a space with others, we may need to accept won’t always be accommodated.For example, toilet paper flap goes over not under. Small logs on top and bigger logs on the bottom of the firewood stack. Perfectly folded fitted sheets. Strategic or weaponized incompetence is repetitive carelessness, damage and destruction of your property and the foisting of one’s share of responsibilities at work or at home. It’s a behavior pattern that repeatedly occurs over time. Generally, it doesn’t get better because it’s not an anomalous unintentional screw-up. It’s an intentional tactic serving to reduce the effort they put into the relationship that requires you to contribute more.Ever wonder why relationships with these types are so exhausting? I mean, beside the <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/drama" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#drama</a>, pointless circular arguments, absence of formal logic and other crazy-making irrationalities and abuse? Because these individuals dump the as much of their adult responsibility onto their partners, kids, colleagues and other <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/enablers" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#enablers</a> as they can get away with.If or when you finally express frustration or the tiniest bit of criticism, the <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/narcissist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#narcissist</a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/borderline" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#borderline</a> or <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/histrionic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#histrionic</a> will:a) <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/PlayVictim" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#PlayVictim</a>. “Why are you being so mean?!?! It’s not like I do these things on purpose!!” b) Attack and What About. “Oh, like you’re Mr./Ms. Perfect!? Like you never screw up!?!?! What about the [one time you made an honest mistake, apologized and corrected the mistake that the <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/NPD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#NPD</a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/BPD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#BPD</a> or <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/HPD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#HPD</a> holds over you in perpetuity]?!?!?!?!”c) Martyr mode. “I can’t do anything right. You must be so sick of me. I’m so stupid. I bet you hate me now. Boo hoo, boo hoo, boo hoo hoo hoo.”d) Minimize and dismiss. “You’re such a perfectionist! Why do you always have to make a mountain out of a molehill? You’re soooooo sensitive. If you’re so unhappy with how I do things, why don’t you do it yourself?!”e) Rage.f) All of the above.You can begin cooking, cleaning up, etc., only for yourself. However, don’t be surprised if their clutter stacks become high rises and their bathroom sink becomes caked with toothpaste, shaved hairs and other nastiness. This measure isn’t possible if you share kids with them, of course.Mature adults and good partners don’t dump their share of household responsibility onto the other partner. If your girlfriend, wife, boyfriend or husband engages in strategic incompetence, I wager it isn’t their only selfish, immature, exploitative and shitty behavior. Do you really want to live with this?<a href="https://lor.sh/tags/AbuseHasNoGender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#AbuseHasNoGender</a>[*The earliest use I can find for the term Strategic incompetence is by Robert Sutton, PhD author of "The No Asshole Rule: Building a Civilized Workplace and Surviving One That Isn't, which is a really good book!]

T.Wllms<a href="https://newsie.social/@stevesilberman" class="u-url mention">@stevesilberman</a> Matt Schlapp... <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/ProfessionalVictim" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#ProfessionalVictim</a>™️

Shrink4MenSo you’re thinking about not spending time with your <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/ToxicFamily" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ToxicFamily</a> this <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/Christmas" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Christmas</a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/Hanukkah" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Hanukkah</a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/Festivus" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Festivus</a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/Atheist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#Atheist</a>, but still enjoy a Christmas tree, etc., this year. Good on you!Before settling in for a long winter’s nap in your kerchief or cap, I suggest the following:1. Gird your loins – whatever this means to you. Meditation, medication, primal screams, working out, making time to do nothing, extra dog walks, watching the Colin Firth version of Pride and Prejudice or Throw Momma from the Train on endless repeat. Again, whatever works for you.2. Let the least toxic family member know you’re sitting this year out. 3. Mute phone contacts who are <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/enablers" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#enablers</a> and/or <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/FlyingMonkeys" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#FlyingMonkeys</a> for the apex <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/narcissist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#narcissist</a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/borderline" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#borderline</a> or <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/histrionic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#histrionic</a> in anticipation of rolling <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/GuiltTrips" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#GuiltTrips</a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/shame" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#shame</a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/balme" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#balme</a> and other <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/manipulation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#manipulation</a>.4. If you struggle with guilt and <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/obligation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#obligation</a>, <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/RealityTest" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#RealityTest</a> x 100. Remember, choosing to opt out of abuse, drama and holiday histrionics isn’t wrong. Seriously, you're not doing anything wrong! You’re exercising healthy <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#boundaries</a> and practicing <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/SelfCare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#SelfCare</a>. As an adult, you get to choose what’s best for you. It is your responsibility to yourself. Besides, opting out of holiday visits gives <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/NPD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#NPD</a>/ <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/BPD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#BPD</a>/ <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/HPD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#HPD</a> parent, sibling, etc., fresh <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/ProfessionalVictim" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ProfessionalVictim</a>™ material. And let’s face, they’re going to victim it up whether you visit or not.And, since they love nothing more than a nice new juicy tale of victimhood, your absence is the best gift you can give them! In other words, "You’re welcome, mom and/or dad!"<a href="https://lor.sh/tags/AbuseHasNoGender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#AbuseHasNoGender</a> <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/NPDfreeChristmas" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#NPDfreeChristmas</a> <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/BPDfreeChristmas" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#BPDfreeChristmas</a>

Shrink4MenWhen a <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/ProfessionalVictim" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#ProfessionalVictim</a> is loudly victim-ing, it's usually because they're experiencing <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/consequences" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#consequences</a> for their shitty choices and behavior.<a href="https://lor.sh/tags/AbuseHasNoGender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#AbuseHasNoGender</a> <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/NPD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#NPD</a> <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/BPD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#BPD</a> <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/HPD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#HPD</a> <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/narcissist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#narcissist</a> <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/borderline" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#borderline</a> <a href="https://lor.sh/tags/histrionic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#histrionic</a>

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