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I just rediscovered two old posts/threads of mine, that explain pretty well, why I want to go into pedagogy now (I didn't know it back then - too busy working on my depression and hating school):

Content warning: Childhood trauma

climatejustice.social/@PaulaTo

climatejustice.social/@PaulaTo

I want to protect children.
I want to provide them a save environment to thrive and talk about their troubles.
In a perfect school system kids would learn mental hygiene and get therapy before they learn integrals and the uncritical history of wars and power abuse. That would prevent so much domestic abuse, because it would be caught early.
And teaching kids emotional and social competence before teaching them applied capitalism will prevent abuse, division, exploitation and hate in the future.

I want to teach children to be happier than me, less abusive than my stepdad, more empathetic than my mom and more protective of future generations than my teachers were.

That's why I'm studying animal assisted pedagogy and will start studying social pedagogy, trauma pedagogy and environmental pedagogy this fall.

Climate Justice SocialPaulaToThePeople (@PaulaToThePeople@climatejustice.social)Content warning: mh-, childhood trauma, school, long post
#mh#trauma#pedagogy

#DomesticAbuse traps victims in cycles of fear—often because leaving means financial ruin.

#UniversalBasicIncome (#UBI) changes that, giving victims agency without bureaucratic hurdles.

No approvals, no means-testing—just freedom to leave NOW.
No more choosing between abuse and homelessness. UBI covers a bus ticket, a security deposit, food while rebuilding.

It won’t solve everything, but it’s a lifeline when every second counts. ❤️

How can such an organization call themselves a charity? How can anyone trust them to help any human subjected to domestic abuse? They clearly showed they don't give a crap.

I wish I had a heart of stone too, it seems the life would have been easier and less painful.

#trans #transgender #transrights #women #womenrights #humanrights #lgbtqia #lgbtq #lgbt #Scotland #uk #abuse #domesticabuse

thepinknews.com/2025/03/03/edi

PinkNews | Latest lesbian, gay, bi and trans news | LGBTQ+ news · Edinburgh domestic abuse charity bars trans women from using its servicesBy Emily Chudy

abusers always use the same moves, so let’s save a life by not gatekeeping 🔥🧯 here are a few tools to help recognise and name cycles of relational control and terror. Also comes with a link of sources including comics, quotes, even the full 1940 film Gaslight! (not the 1944 American one)

link: liyyusof.com/abuse-blueprint/
references: re.na/liy-y/abuser-architectur

Liy Learned That · Abusers always use the same moves (and physical violence is not one of them)The methods common to intimate abuse match those used by all traders of human captivity. What should surprise us about abuse isn't how long it takes to leave, but that one has the strength to endure captivity disguised as courtship.
Continued thread

"In 2019, Refuge reported that 72% of women accessing its services said they had been subjected to “technology-facilitated abuse”, and warned that the growing use of camera doorbells and smart speakers can provide perpetrators with more tools to harm victims. They’re an effective method of coercive control, for monitoring, spying and withholding power."

#EvaWiseman, 2025

theguardian.com/world/2025/feb

The Guardian · Is it time to ring the alarm on internet door cameras?By Eva Wiseman

The Superbowl Tradition Continues! I hope you'll join me.

A reminder that #DomesticAbuse often increases after big games like the #SuperBowl.

A few years back I joined a tradition of donating to an organization dedicated to protecting partners from abuse in the losing city.

This year I'm again donating $10 per point of the winning team to an organization in the losing team's city.

I'd love for you to join me with any amount. Who's in? Post below and we'll post receipts after.

Nigerian guitarist, Fiokee loses sister to domestic abuse: Condolences have been shared for Nigerian guitarist, Fiokee, after the heartbreaking news of his sister’s death due to domestic abuse. Fiokee took to Instagram to share his devastation over his sister’s tragic passing, of which he had no prior knowledge. He shared that his sister had endured her suffering in silence and urged others in […] creebhills.com/2025/02/fiokee- #Fiokee #DomesticAbuse #Condolences #MentalHealth #NigerianMusic

Whilst I'm glad is being recognised for the it causes, this article is somewhat misleading (or the media have been briefed incorrectly). Any serious harm risks (including coercive control) are already shared with other agencies by the , this is not something new. It is disingenuous to infer otherwise.

Coercive control to be put on par with other types of in England and Wales | Domestic violence | The Guardian
theguardian.com/society/2025/f

The Guardian · Coercive control to be put on par with other types of domestic abuse in England and WalesBy Eleni Courea