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Yle News<p>Finnish court orders deportation of mother, two children held in detention unit for 55 days</p><p>The mother of the family told Yle she fled a life of prostitution in Italy as well as an abusive husband, but EU regulations mean she must return there.</p><p><a href="https://yle.fi/a/74-20173327" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">yle.fi/a/74-20173327</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p><p><a href="https://social.ahlroos.me/tags/Family" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Family</span></a> <a href="https://social.ahlroos.me/tags/ProstitutionSurvivor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ProstitutionSurvivor</span></a> <a href="https://social.ahlroos.me/tags/AbuseSurvivor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>AbuseSurvivor</span></a> <a href="https://social.ahlroos.me/tags/EURegulations" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>EURegulations</span></a> <a href="https://social.ahlroos.me/tags/Italy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Italy</span></a></p>
:autism: Aurin needs💸:antifa:<p>Mental health tip that is secretly antifa in action, that I learned from <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://kind.social/@DionRa" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@<span>DionRa</span></a></span>: </p><p>When you are down on yourself or have intrusive thoughts or otherwise feel like "my brain hates me", "my brain is being mean" —</p><p>This has a source outside of you. It's not a part of you that randomly decided to make your life shit for no reason. That's not how brains or psyches or emotions or humans or mental health works. If you suffer, it's because someone MAKES you suffer!</p><p>You're being oppressed, you're being exploited, you're being neglected, your rights are trampled on, you're being threatened, you might suffer systemic violence and/or interpersonal abuse. You suffer from helplessness in the face of injustice and cruelty around you. </p><p>And I know many of you know this and I know it's often overwhelming to think about. I am living that right now.</p><p>But it is important to remember as often as you can, where that comes from. To try and get specific. Who in your life is hurting you or threatening or gaslighting? Who is exposing you to oppression? Who is abusing you at home or in activist spaces?</p><p>We can't fight our own brains and "win". We can't just accept suffering either. We can only work towards more safety and more freedom and more justice by getting as specific and unflinching as we can when tracing our sufferings back to their sources. </p><p>Then fight the source. Bring the fight to them. Just being clear in your own mind changes how interactions play out! It's not easy, but it IS worth it and it gets easier with every exercise. </p><p>Sometimes you can just disengage. Unfollow, block, give monosyllabic responses if you have to. You can cut your own parents out of your life if you want to. You can find ways to get by without bosses. </p><p>Otherwise, make them at least work for it. Don't give in easily to injustices, especially the very normalised ones. Be "unreasonable" and difficult! Use the privileges you do have. Keep asking "Why?" as if you're 4 again. </p><p>Just do what you feel like. Sit or lie down or jump around for no other reason than you feel like it. Eat what catches your fancy. Eat until you feel like doing something else, even if you're already "full" (diet culture messed up your perception of your body's needs!) Sing, laugh uproariously, swear and yell. Sigh. Just stare blankly into space if that feels peaceful. Sleep more. </p><p>Connect to your body, reconnect over and over again. Be THERE for yourself, be in yourself, in your body. Connect body, mind and action. </p><p><a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/MentalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>MentalHealth</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/SelfCare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>SelfCare</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/MentalIllness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>MentalIllness</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/AbuseCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>AbuseCulture</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/RapeCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>RapeCulture</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/abuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>abuse</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/AbuseSurvivor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>AbuseSurvivor</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/RapeSurvivor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>RapeSurvivor</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/SelfCare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>SelfCare</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/CommunityCare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CommunityCare</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/dissociation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>dissociation</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/grounding" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>grounding</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/DomesticAbuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>DomesticAbuse</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/brains" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>brains</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/NegativeSelfTalk" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NegativeSelfTalk</span></a></p>
:autism: Aurin needs💸:antifa:<p>Being a good person is in everyone's best interest, some people just really don't wanna and others have been lied to, pressured and tricked. </p><p>The earlier and firmer one takes a stance against evil, the easier and better for everyone. But it is never too late. </p><p>Appeasement, moral cowardice, opportunism and outright evil are only seemingly easier. They're not actually safer options. That's just something abusers, oppressors and their enablers want us to think. </p><p>They'll warn or threaten that if we don't give in, we'll get punished or our lives get harder. But the truth is: Giving in only makes the abuser/oppressor stronger and bolder. They'll do worse next time. Often right away. </p><p>Even if you, for very good reason, are afraid of being made an example, remember: the oppressor wants you to think short term and narrow your worldview until it fits within their decrees. </p><p>The natural trauma response focuses on short term survival too, but once you are able, ask yourself what the mid- and long term dynamics will be. Do you really want to be sucked in deeper and deeper, be controlled more and more by someone who has PROVEN to be untrustworthy? </p><p>Abusers and oppressors, cops, rapists and fascists are never trustworthy or safe to be around, whether you are meek and obedient or powerful among them. They routinely abuse their "inferiors" as well as each other, desensitise each other to violence and dehumanisation, and easily turn on each other. They are arbitrary and shift goalposts constantly, that's their THING. </p><p>Their game is always rigged. You cannot escape their violence by trying to follow their rules, only by intentionally breaking them. </p><p>So, once you are able, start making plans of how you can resist. Reconnect to your body as often as you can. Reorient your moral compass back towards your own values and away from theirs. Look for ways to connect to other good people (beings, entities), whatever label they may give themselves, wherever they may be at, however they may look. </p><p>If you repeat and strengthen these neurological pathways, opportunities to resist and to fully live will become clearer and clearer.</p><p><a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/antifa" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>antifa</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/AntiFascism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>AntiFascism</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/AbuseCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>AbuseCulture</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/AbuseSurvivor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>AbuseSurvivor</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/acab" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>acab</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/anarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>anarchy</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/communism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>communism</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/ClimateJustice" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ClimateJustice</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/resist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>resist</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/resistance" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>resistance</span></a> <a href="https://climatejustice.social/tags/RapeCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>RapeCulture</span></a></p>
Headlines Africa<p>Cassie testifies in Diddy’s trial <a href="http://newsfeed.facilit8.network/TKlpp3" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">http://</span><span class="ellipsis">newsfeed.facilit8.network/TKlp</span><span class="invisible">p3</span></a> <a href="https://journa.host/tags/Cassie" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Cassie</span></a> <a href="https://journa.host/tags/DiddyTrial" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>DiddyTrial</span></a> <a href="https://journa.host/tags/SexTrafficking" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>SexTrafficking</span></a> <a href="https://journa.host/tags/RBSinger" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>RBSinger</span></a> <a href="https://journa.host/tags/AbuseSurvivor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>AbuseSurvivor</span></a></p>
Shine My Crown<p>Devasting! Mom Mistakenly Killed by Son Trying to Defend Her from Abusive Boyfriend <a href="https://shinemycrown.com/devasting-mom-mistakenly-killed-by-son-trying-to-defend-her-from-abusive-boyfriend/?utm_source=dlvr.it&amp;utm_medium=mastodon" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">shinemycrown.com/devasting-mom</span><span class="invisible">-mistakenly-killed-by-son-trying-to-defend-her-from-abusive-boyfriend/?utm_source=dlvr.it&amp;utm_medium=mastodon</span></a> <a href="https://newsie.social/tags/DomesticViolence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>DomesticViolence</span></a> <a href="https://newsie.social/tags/GunSafety" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>GunSafety</span></a> <a href="https://newsie.social/tags/MilwaukeeNews" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>MilwaukeeNews</span></a> <a href="https://newsie.social/tags/FamilyTragedy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>FamilyTragedy</span></a> <a href="https://newsie.social/tags/AbuseSurvivor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>AbuseSurvivor</span></a></p>
BigGucciElWopo<p><a href="https://youtube.com/shorts/uU0buDqb3bs?si=C8rhqIxayEPanMcL" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">youtube.com/shorts/uU0buDqb3bs</span><span class="invisible">?si=C8rhqIxayEPanMcL</span></a></p><p>TikTok Star’s Abuse Win Exposes James Charles Scandal!<br>.<br>.<br>.<br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/KaylaMalec" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>KaylaMalec</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/EvanJohnson" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>EvanJohnson</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/JamesCharles" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>JamesCharles</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/DomesticViolence" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>DomesticViolence</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/TikTokDrama" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TikTokDrama</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/CourtCase" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>CourtCase</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/InfluencerNews" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>InfluencerNews</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ViralStory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ViralStory</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/JusticeForKayla" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>JusticeForKayla</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/SocialMedia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>SocialMedia</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/AbuseSurvivor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>AbuseSurvivor</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/TikTokStar" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TikTokStar</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Controversy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Controversy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/InfluencerLife" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>InfluencerLife</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/TrueCrime" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TrueCrime</span></a></p>
Retroworldnews<p>Being in a relationship with a narcissist can feel like you’re constantly navigating an emotional minefield. You may know the manipulation is coming—the gaslighting, the blame-shifting, the refusal to take responsibility—but that knowledge doesn’t soften the blow. <br><a href="https://retroworldnews.com/how-narcissists-use-reactive-abuse-to-manipulate-and-control-you/" rel="nofollow noopener" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">retroworldnews.com/how-narciss</span><span class="invisible">ists-use-reactive-abuse-to-manipulate-and-control-you/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Narcissism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Narcissism</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/ReactiveAbuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ReactiveAbuse</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/EmotionalManipulation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>EmotionalManipulation</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/ToxicRelationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>ToxicRelationships</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/MentalHealthAwareness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>MentalHealthAwareness</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/AbuseSurvivor" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>AbuseSurvivor</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/SelfCare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>SelfCare</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/HealingJourney" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>HealingJourney</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/Boundaries" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>Boundaries</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/PsychologicalAbuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>PsychologicalAbuse</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/TraumaRecovery" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>TraumaRecovery</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/NarcissisticAbuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>NarcissisticAbuse</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/life" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">#<span>life</span></a></p>
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:autism: Aurin needs💸:antifa:

Btw wir beide sind in dieser Lage gelandet, weil wir vor häuslicher Gewalt geflohen sind und von polizei und staatlichen Stellen und Therapeutinnen und Psychiatrie im Stich gelassen wurden bzw die de facto Täterschutz betreiben. Mal subtil mit Vorschlägen, es doch lieber mit gewaltfreier Kommunikation zu versuchen statt sich von Tätern abzugrenzen, mal ganz platt mit der Weigerung, Beweise zu sichern, weil ich bei der Vorstellung, vor fremden Schergen des Patriarchats (Bullen) mein Herz auszukrempeln lieber verrückt geworden bin. Und das war auch gut so. Also verlassen wir uns auf sowas nicht mehr, sondern setzen lieber auf menschliche Solidarität, inspiriert von der Rotzfrechen Asphaltkultur (rak-treffen.de) und dem spirit von Punk im Allgemeinen.

#abusesurvivor#häuslichegewalt#gewalt
SingsongRaptor

One of my best friends is in extreme distress following the passing of her grandmother. Her abusive parents showed up to the funeral, specifically to terrorize her. Her job also restructured at the start of June and it's caused her to lose her insurance and therapist, all her PTO (which she needs for her wedding) and made her check short. She's in deep despair and desperately needs #MutualAid
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#disabilitytwitter #disabled #HelpRequest #grief #loss #therapy #abusesurvivor

SingsongRaptor

One of my best friends is in extreme distress following the passing of her grandmother. Her abusive parents showed up to the funeral, specifically to terrorize her. Her job also restructured at the start of June and it's caused her to lose her insurance and therapist, all her PTO (which she needs for her wedding) and made her check short. She's in deep despair and desperately needs #MutualAid
t.co/TQkSB28HYI
#disabilitytwitter #disabled #HelpRequest #grief #loss #therapy #abusesurvivor

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Anna

For people who wonder if an infusion can be so expensive, here’s a quote below. Welcome to Australia.

Also:
1. I have to provide them with magnesium to put in the drip so essentially I’m paying $380 just for a bag of Hartmanns.
2. I have to provide them proper P2 masks bc they only use surgical ones.
3. 😩

My #POTS is getting so bad I have to book them now because the public system takes forever (ie. 2 years at earliest). I can’t find any cheaper.

If you’re qualified to do this and charge less, let me know.

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Or beem.com.au to @halcionandon

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Anna

Short version of #Crowdfunding post. Please #boost!

👋🏻
I need #help escaping an #abusive environment. Government services aren’t sufficient and neither is my meagre income. I‘m #Disabled by #ChronicIllness which makes it even harder. I can’t do it alone.
Any help appreciated.

If you can help:
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or
Australians can save me fees (I get 100% of your donation) by using for free:
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Long version with details: aus.social/@halcionandon/10932

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